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Korea: Saving One Life
23 May 2008 14:36:54 GMT
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A netizen shares a cute story that happened on a usual day for him. Helping others might not be so hard.

…안녕하세ìš".. ì €ëŠ" 20대 직장인 남자입니다^^! 다른게 아니라 ì–´ì œ ë°¤ 11시 30분쯤ì- 있ì-ˆë˜ì¼ì„ 이야기할려합니다… 뚜뚜~~뚜뚜~~뚜우우~ 7시다 퇴근하자 칼퇴근.. ㅁㅅㅁ 퇴근을 마치고.. ìš"즘 똥배가 조금나와서 8시부터 항상 운동을합니다.. 이 한강근처라.. 한강ì-ì„œ 조깅을하ëŠ"데ìš"~ 평소와같이.. mp3를 ë"¤ìœ¼ë©° 신나게 운동을하고.. 땀을 쫘악빼고~ ì§'으로 ê°€ëŠ"길이였습니다.. ì œ ì¡°ê¹…ì½"스가 사람이별로ì-†ê³  í'€ì´ 많이있ëŠ"곳이 있ëŠ"데.. 그곳ì-ì„œ 멈춰서 잠깐 한강 야경이나 ë³´ê³  가야지하ëŠ" 생각ì- 잠깐 걸음을 멈ì¶"ì-ˆìŠµë‹ˆë‹¤..

그런데 한 남자분이 앉아있ë"라고ìš" 그자리ì-ëŠ" 소주2ë³'이 있ë"라고ìš".. 안주ëŠ"ì-†ê³ .. 깡소주;; 그런데 ê°'자기 그분이~ 나같은넘은 죽어야돼~ 죽어버릴꺼야~~ 큰소리로 소리를 치ë"라고ìš".. 그곳ì-ëŠ" 그분과 저밖ì-ì-†ì-ˆëŠ"데.. 순간 ì €ëŠ" 움ì°" 놀랬지만.. 그분있ëŠ"곳을 ë°"라보았조.. 그분 ê°'자기 옷을 ë²-ë"라고ìš".. ìœ-옷을ë²-ê³  ë°"지를ë²-ë"라고ìš"… 그리고 신발을 ë²-을려고하ëŠ" 순간.. ì €ëŠ" 이건아니다 싶어서 막 달려ê°"습니다.. 그분ì- íŒ"을잡고.. 저기 무슨일있으신가ìš".. ì €ëž' 잠깐만 이야기하자고했조.. 그분 처음보ëŠ" ì €ì-ê²Œ 눈물을보이면서 íŽ'íŽ' 울ë"라고ìš".. 음~ 가만희 ë"£ê³ ìžˆì-ˆë‹µë‹ˆë‹¤ ì €ëŠ".. 이야기를 ë"¤ì–´ë³´ë‹ˆ 5ë…„ê°„ 사귄 ì-¬ìžì¹œêµ¬ê°€ìžˆì-ˆëŠ"데.. 자기가 ì•„ëŠ" 선배한테 ì-¬ìžì¹œêµ¬ë¥¼ ë¹¼ì•-겼다고합니다… 그래서 세상살기가 싫다고하ë"라고ìš".. 나이도 어려보이고.. 동생같기도해서 실례지만 나이가 어찌되시조.. ì-¬ì­¤ë´¤ë"니~ 25살이라고 하ë"라고ìš".. 이야기를 쭈욱ë"£ê³  제가 그분ì-ê²Œ.. 제가 그쪽보다 2살이 많은데 동생같기도하고 해서 ì œ ê²½í-˜ë‹´ì„ 이야기해도 되겠냐고.. ìš"즘 운동ì¤'이라 술은 안먹지만 그분ì-ê²Œ 소주한ìž" 달라고했습니다.. 그리고 저도 한ìž"ë"œë¦¬ê³  ë'˜ì´ 깡소주로 한ìž"하고.. 저도 예전ì- 가슴아í"ˆ ê²½í-˜ë‹´ì„ 이야기해주면서.. 그걸 극복해낸 사ì-°ì„ 이야기했답니다.. ê·¸ 동생분ì-ê²Œ 술한ìž" 사주고싶어서.. 주머니를 ë'¤ì ¸ë´¤ëŠ"데 만원이있ë"라고ìš".. 평소ì- 운동나갈때ëŠ" 제가 ë"± 천원 생수하나 사먹을돈만 가지고가ëŠ"데.. 오늘은 제가 천원이라고 생각하고 가지고 나온돈이.. 만원이ë"라고ìš"^..^
브라보~! 그분ì-ê²Œ 저기 형이 운동 나와서 지금 만원밖ì-ì-†ëŠ"데.. 우리 깡소주말고 쥐포라도 사가지고 쥐포ì-ë‹¤ê°€ 소주어때^^? 물ì-ˆë"니.. 그리고 같이 마시던 2ë³'ì¤'ì- 한ë³'은 남아서 ëšœê»'ë‹«ê³  키í•' 콜 ã…Žã…Ž 그리고 편의점가서 쥐포와 소주2ë³'을 사고.. 파라ì†"ì- 앉아서 그분과 2시간정도 많은 이야기를 나누ì-ˆìŠµë‹ˆë‹¤.. 그분께서 눈물을 흘리면서 사실 오늘 자살할생각까지했ëŠ"데.. 형하고 이야기를 나누어보니.. 자기가 ë°"보스럽다고.. ë"ìš±ë" 힘내야겠다고하ë"라고ìš"..그리고 ê·¸ 동생ì-ê²Œ ì-°ë½ì²˜ë¥¼ 주고받고.. 다음ì-ëŠ" 또 힘ë"¤ë©´ 형하고 술한ìž" 또하자했답니다..휴~ 그리고 ì§'ì- ê°€ëŠ"길ì- 안부 ì „í™"í–‡ë"니 무사히 ì§'ì- ê°€ëŠ"ì¤'이라고하ë"라고ìš"..오늘 정신이 하나도ì-†ë˜ 하루였지만.. 그래도 미약한 제가 누군가ì-ê²Œ 힘이되ì-ˆë‹¤ëŠ"것이 뿌ë"¯í•˜ê³  기분이좋네ìš".. ì" 운동땜시 술은 절대 안먹을려고 ì œ 자신ì-ê²Œ 다짐했지만.. 오늘은 ì œ 자신ì-ê²Œ 외쳐봅니다..이런 상황ì-ì„œëŠ" 괜찮아 임마 ã…‹ã…‹ 다ë"¤ 항상 행복하시기ë°"랍니다^^

Hi.. I’m in my 20s and work at a company. I just would like to talk about what happened to me at 11 pm yesterday night. At 7 pm, at the close of office hours, I got out of the office. Every night I go jogging at 8 pm because I feel I got fat on my stomach. My house is near the Han River and my jogging course is usually around the Han River. As usual, listening to music on my mp3 player, I was running enjoyably. After finishing my jog, I was on the way back home. There are not a lot of people on my jogging course, but it is full of grass. I stopped in order to look around the night scene of the Han River.

Then I saw one man sitting there and two bottles of soju (Korean alcohol). Without any other side dish, he was just drinking soju. Suddenly he started crying out, “I should die. People like me don’t deserve to live. I’m gonna die~ I will die~” There were just him and me. I was startled and looked at him. He started taking his clothes off. First shirt and then pants. When he was talking shoes off, I ran to him. I grabbed his arm and said, “What’s going on? Do you want to talk with me?” Once he saw me a stranger, he wailed. Listening to his words, he had a girlfriend and their relationship was for five years. But he was deprived of her by his friend. He said that he doesn’t want to live anymore. He looked young and was probably younger than me. I made bold to ask him how old he is. He was 25. After listening to his story, I said, I will tell my experience because you look like my younger brother.” Due to exercise, I don’t drink recently, but asked him to give me a cup of soju. We exchanged cups of soju and talked about my heart-broken story. I wanted to buy soju for him and fumbled for the money in my pocket. I usually bring 1,000 won for a bottle of water, but at that day I had 10,000 won because I confused the money. What luck… I told him, “this brother came here to work out and so doesn’t have enough money. But why don’t we have dried filefish with soju together?” We walked to a grocery store and bought two more bottles of soju and dried filefish. Sitting under a parasol, I have talked with him for 2 more hours. Weeping, he said he was really thinking about giving his life up tonight, but now he felt he was really stupid. We exchanged our contact number and I suggested him that we can drink any other time. On the way back home, I called him in order to confirm. He received the call and said that he’s on the way back to his home as well. It was such a day, but I was glad that such a tiny human I can give the consolation to another person. Even though my promise not to drink was broken, I told to myself, ‘it is fine in this kind of situation.’ I hope that everyone is happy.

Many netizens have similar comments, as below.

잘하셧네ìš"^^저도 25살인데 저도 일주일전ì- 친구한명을 떠나보냈어ìš"~~~세상사ëŠ"게 힘ë"¤ë‹¤ê³  ì „í™"한통이 걸려와서 ì§'ì-ê°€ë³´ë‹ˆ 이미~~~하늘나라로 가고 말았네ì-¬~~ì €ëŠ" 친구도 못살리ëŠ"데~~대단하십니다…

You didn’t a good job. I’m also 25. I also had to send one friend a week ago~~~ She called me and said, it’s not easy to live in this world. I went to her house and she already left for the heaven~~ I even couldn’t save my friend~~

자살하ëŠ" 사람의 대부분이 힘ë"  이야기를 나눌 상대가 ì-†ê¸° 때문이라고 합니다. 거기서 정신적으로 내몰리신 거죠. 좋은일 하신 겁니다!! 다른 ë¶„ë"¤ë„ 힘ë"¤ë•ŒëŠ" 주위 아무나 붙잡고라도 이야기를 나누세ìš". 힘ë"  일은 나눌수록 ìž'아진답니다!!

Most people who give up their lives don’t have partners with whom to have conversations. They’re on the verge spiritual problems. You did a good job!! When other people have a hard time, just try to talk with anyone around you. The more you share hardship, the smaller the hardship will be!!
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